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Friday the 13th: Only Unlucky If You Choose to Believe It
Friday the 13th: Luck, Lunar Magic, and Letting Go
For as long as I can remember, Friday the 13th was always a day that had people freaking out because of the bad luck and superstitions that go with the name.
It wasn’t until adulthood that I finally dug into the roots of this infamous day and discovered its deeper spiritual and empowering meaning. Now, I’ve come to embrace Friday the 13th as a day filled with unique energy, especially when it aligns with a full moon like this December’s Full Moon in Gemini.
The History and Mystique of Friday the 13th
Friday the 13th has long been associated with superstition, largely thanks to cultural and historical influences. An important milestone in the history of the Friday the 13th legend occurred in 1907, with the publication of the novel Friday, the Thirteenth by Thomas William Lawson. This book added to the mystique of the date by weaving a dramatic tale about financial manipulation and bad luck on Wall Street, further cementing the number’s infamous reputation. The origins of its “unlucky” reputation can also be traced back to religious and patriarchal efforts to suppress feminine and pagan traditions.
The number 13 was sacred in many ancient cultures, symbolizing femininity, the goddess, and the lunar calendar (which typically has 13 moon cycles in a year). Friday, meanwhile, was associated with Venus, the Roman goddess of love and beauty. Together, Friday the 13th was a celebration of feminine energy, creation, and abundance. Unfortunately, over time, these positive associations were replaced with fear and negativity.
Pop culture didn’t help. The 1980 horror movie Friday the 13th cemented the day’s reputation as one to dread, just like Jaws did for sharks. The movie’s gruesome events gave people another reason to shudder at the date—but it’s worth remembering that Hollywood thrives on drama, not spiritual truth.
If you want to dig deeper into the history of Friday the 13th and its misunderstood reputation, check out the History Channels article for Friday the 13th. Or read the Friday the Thirteenth book! (And if you love the horror film, they also have a book for you 🙂
Friday The Thirteenth
by Thomas W Lawson
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Crystal Lake Memories: The Complete History of Friday the 13th
by Peter M. Bracke
‘Friday the 13th’ introduced moviegoers to a new kind of cinematic terror – shocking, visceral, and graphic. Spawning ten sequels, the series has become the most successful horror franchise. Illustrated with nearly 600 photos, archives and production materials, this volume is a visual memoir of the series.
The Spiritual Power of the Full Moon
A full moon alone is a powerful spiritual event. It marks a time of culmination, heightened intuition, and release.
The Full Moon in Gemini, which graces the skies on December 15th, can be felt energetically a few days before and after, brings its own unique energy. Gemini’s influence invites curiosity, communication, and a focus on dualities. It’s an opportunity to seek clarity, embrace adaptability, and release outdated beliefs.
If you’re curious about the astrological impact of this particular full moon, I’ve written an in-depth guide you can explore: The Full Moon in Gemini on December 15th.
"Friday the 13th was a celebration of feminine energy, creation, and abundance."
The Synergy of Friday the 13th and the Full Moon
When Friday the 13th aligns with a full moon, the energy is magnified. The full moon’s influence is not limited to the exact date—its effects can be felt a few days to a week both before and after, providing ample time to reflect and embrace its themes. This rare combination is a perfect time to:
Embrace Your Intuition: Both the number 13 and the full moon are tied to intuition and the divine feminine. Trust your inner voice.
Let Go of Limiting Beliefs: Release the idea that Friday the 13th is unlucky and see it as a day of empowerment. Shift your mindset about the date.
Dive Into Shadow Work: Reflect on fears or emotions you’ve been avoiding and begin the process of healing.
Set New Intentions: Use the illumination of the full moon to get clear on your goals and dreams.
Mindset: The Narrative You Choose - Are you lucky or unlucky?
Friday the 13th, much like the full moon, is all about mindset. What story do you tell yourself about this day? Is it a day of bad luck or an opportunity for transformation? This Full Moon in Gemini invites us to reflect on how we process and share information. It’s a chance to challenge the narratives we’ve inherited and choose a perspective that serves us.
When we view Friday the 13th as a day to fear, we speak that belief into existence. But what happens if we call it our lucky day instead? This day—and life itself—is shaped by the mindset we bring to it. You hold the power to decide what this day means to you.
For the Swifties out there, even Taylor Swift sees the number 13 as her lucky charm. She’s shared how it’s connected to many positive milestones in her life, proving that this number is as powerful as you believe it to be. While I wouldn’t call myself a Swifty, I did attend one of her concerts back before she became a mega-star and when she was still very country lol). But, I’ve always admired her ability to empower women through her success and artistry. Her perspective on 13 is a great reminder of how we can shape the meaning we give to anything in life.
The moon teaches us this lesson beautifully. Even when she isn’t visible in the night sky, she’s still there, reflecting the sun’s light for others to see. Similarly, you carry your own light, even when you don’t feel it shining brightly. Like the moon, you have the power to rise again, reflect light, and guide others simply by being yourself.
Using This Day as a Reminder for Personal Growth
Friday the 13th, like the moon cycles, serves as a gentle reminder that life is full of endings and beginnings. The moon teaches us that even in darkness, there is potential for light. She may wane, fade, or disappear from view, but she always rises again. Even when unseen, the moon reflects the sun’s light, guiding us and inspiring awe.
This is why I started Good Vibes Creative. Like the moon, I hope to reflect light back to others, helping them see their own brilliance. Sometimes, we just need a little reminder that the light is already within us. Days like Friday the 13th are perfect for tuning into that energy—a time to reflect, grow, and remember that transformation is always possible.
Rituals for Friday the 13th and the Full Moon
Here are a few simple ways to make the most of this unique day:
Full Moon Release Ritual: Write down what you want to let go of and safely burn the paper to symbolize release.
Meditation and Self-Reflection: Spend time journaling about what Friday the 13th and the full moon mean to you.
Gratitude Practice: List 13 things you’re grateful for to honor the day’s sacred energy.
Vision Board Creation: Take time to align with your goals. (If you’re new to vision boards, check out my guide HERE).
How do you choose to see Friday the 13th?
To help you harness this energy, I’m offering a free Goal Setting Worksheet (below) to guide you in creating and achieving meaningful goals. Whether you’re reflecting under the full moon or starting fresh for the new year, this resource is designed to help you connect with your dreams.
Friday the 13th is only unlucky if you choose to believe it is. With the full moon lighting the way, why not reframe it as a day of transformation, intuition, and spiritual growth?
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